I love to read daringfireball. John Gruber makes good arguments and backs them up with good evidence. But I'm occasionally frustrated by the way the stories are framed.
Reactions to Gruber is the blog I've been searching for: it provides counterarguments for those of us who don't share Gruber's point of view.
I thought this post in particular was very good. John Gruber does a snarky attack on Android's notification icons; Stuyvesant Parker responds and shows that the icons aren't bad, and that the iPhone is worse off without them.